You know how in big cities there are just so many people walking down any given street at any given time that you’re not likely to wave hello, or even acknowledge the presence of anyone? Many city dwellers have often commented on the strange dichotomy of feeling isolated in a place where they are surrounded by millions of people.
In contrast, you cannot live in a small town without feeling like you know everyone else who lives there. Small-town residents can never afford to be rude to a stranger on the street, because it’s likely that the stranger is now there to stay… their new neighbor.
I know a city with a population well over 700,000 people, yet when I walk into a bar or cafe, everyone turns their head to see if they recognize me, and then when they realize that they don’t, almost immediately inquire about who I am. Many locals refer to it as the biggest small town. Essentially, there is a strong sense of community in this city, that trumps cities three times smaller. That regardless of how many people are actually there, what matters is how people treat each other and how they treat the city itself.
The funny thing, which is probably no coincidence, is that this city is the same city that is constantly ridiculed, sensationalized, and well misunderstood. It stands to reason then that a collective adversity brings people together in defense of what they know their city to be. There is a call to arms… but instead of protecting the physical borders they are defending the sociocultural and emotional ones.
It leads me to wonder what this city will look and feel like in 50 or 100 years. While cities who lack such a tight-knit community, like certain cities with a population well over 4 million, might fall into social disrepair caused by apathy and homogenization, will this city stand as a beacon of hope for community?
Imagine life in a small town: local shops with friendly and social proprietors behind the counter, deeply engaged citizens that work hard to preserve their history, and being able to get to know the farmers who grow the food you eat.
Now imagine life in a big city: cultural diversity, world-class architecture, access to a larger economy, exciting art and nightlife, and a sense of being connected to something bigger.
Now imagine having the best of both worlds?
Because that’s how a city should be.
By Bethany Betzler, bethany@ideaengineeringagency.com